A friend once got a 2 a.m. call. His dad had wandered out of the house, confused, holding a golf club and a ball retriever. That moment changed everything for their family.
Caring for aging parents often starts suddenly, without a roadmap. I’ve worked with many clients raising kids, managing careers, and navigating care decisions all at once. The emotional and financial strain can be intense.
There’s no perfect solution, but early conversations and some structure can ease the burden.
In my current article for Kiplinger, I share insights on:
- Why clarity matters more than control in family dynamics
- The true cost of stepping in as a caregiver
- How to plan for both the person who needs care and the spouse who doesn’t
- What to expect as care needs increase over time
You can’t control the timing, but you can prepare for it.
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